There are ways you can check your wife’s text messages without her knowing, but I think you should have a think about whether this is really a road you want to go down. Here are some suggestions, but you must check whether you are breaching any privacy laws before doing anything at all.
1 If you are not familiar with the phone and that is stopping you from checking (in fear you might delete something) then go into a phone shop and ask to see one, explaining you are worried you won’t understand how to work the text messages.
2 If you want to read some messages which have not been opened yet, check whether or not you can tick them as "unread” after. You will need to know the phone make and model; then either ring a phone shop to check or run a Google search on it.
3 If you want to track and read her messages you could download mobile spy software like Mobile Spy (www.mobile-spy.com). You would have to actually download this on her phone and it then claims to allow you to track and read her text messages without actually having her phone. However, you must check privacy laws before doing this as you may be breaking the law.
As I said at the beginning of this post, you need to think about whether you really want to be checking your wife’s text messages without her knowing. It is an invasion of privacy and you should ask yourself how you would feel if she did this to you. Also, if you find any evidence that she is having an affair you may have to admit to reading her phone - and text messages can often be misinterpreted at the best of times.
Is there something that ii can use to check her text messages on her phone ,I am pretty sure she is cheating
I completely understand what you are going through I am having same thoughts about my husband he keeps the phone away from me and is deaf and only can do text but it is an old blackberry so I don't know how to tap his phone I think he is cheating and trying to talk to him about it doesnt work but when he hides the phone like on mothers day and turns off the phone and than runs away from me to check the texts I know their is a problem did you find any answers because I want to do the same without him knowing. Can you tell me what you have learned??
Why do you need to read the unread text messages? Just read the ones that are already read, you should get a good idea of whether or not she's cheating, unless she deletes the the ones that would incriminate her.
I know how just get a black berry and hack into her phone to get a signal with her knowing you can even delete people.
You can read ones they have already read but if you open one they have not opened then they will guess something is up and you will be in deep trouble.
Hello Edluva, I strongly suggest that you sit down and talk to your wife, explain that since you have been lied to in the past you are a little unsure and see that she is texting a lot, and you don't want to get hurt. So you come up front and ask you reading text messages behind her back will cause more problems if she finds out. Trust me a woman would rather have her husband explain whats bothering them rather than take the situation into your own hands you are a married couple, a team. Please work with eachother. Set an example that if she evers has a suspicion she can come to you in the same manner. Good Luck and take care.
You can sneak the phone, while they are away from it, open the messages, read them, then mark as unread, if not already opened.
If your a verizon customer you can't read the text online but if you can get on her account you can see who they are sent to and from.
I have sprint service - How can I to my wifes text messages
Hello!!! Do you think she will tell you the truth if you ask her.. In fact she will take more precaution and you never know the truth!!!
it depends, what her phone model is..see you can get phones that allow you to mark a message un-read, after you have read it. Phones like sony ericssons allow that, you can read a message that someone has received and after reading it you can mark it as un-read, and the other person will not be aware that you have read their sms.
if your so concerned, I suggest you should it sit it down and talk to her about it. Ask her who it is. You should always be upfront and allow the other person to know that you don't like it, or that you want to know more. Its better if you ask her, it might just be an old friend or family relative. Ask her before you jump to any conclusions.