One of my matches disappeared on Tinder last week. Luckily, I already had her phone number through a friend of a friend, so I decided to ask her what was going on...
What I found out will shock and amaze you (if you are a Tinder user!)
Why people disappear on Tinder
Apparently, what happened with this girl who I was chatting with and sharing some "explicit" pics with, was an unexpected "complication"... Her boyfriend!
That's when I began to realize that, actually, a lot of people on Tinder aren't on there to meet new people for a relationship etc... Statistically, people start relationships with people that they know in real life and share something in common with.
Girls on Tinder use it just to have a "bit of fun", even if they already have a boyfriend. Sure, sometimes it turns into something more serious, but I'd say about 80% of the time, girls just want to have fun!
Ok, so maybe this isn't a big deal to you, but for me it is interesting because my approach has always been to try and sound like the "relationship type" even though all I wanted to do was have fun as well!
Why this girl disappeared on Tinder
Anyway, back to this girl... So it turned out her boyfriend found the app on her phone, and that's why she was forced to delete it.
When I talked to her, I asked her for a "casual fun drink" out.. And she said yes! I will let you knowhow it goes.