Well I don't know if this will do you any good but you could go on a website called www.smallworlds.com. You get to chat with people and maybe find the right guy.....
Www.chatablanca.com is really good
Go on detective honey game and look at the top and you can see chat click on it and all ages up to 20 and its free I'm on there
Yes it is for 9-12 year olds and its a club just go to google and type in chatting websites for 9-12 year olds, then a list of chatting webs look for a web thats a club for 9-12 year olds and you got a chatting website to add to your favorites