i still don't get the confirmation code yet and i think it's take so long .do i need to login with my phone to get confirmation code or just wait when code comes?

The issue with Tagged confirmation codes isn't related to logging in with your phone, and is actually a massive flaw on their part.

I actually answered a question that covers this same topic here.

And in fact there are a few things you could try, as covered in the other answer:

1. Resend the confirmation code.
2. Contact Tagged directly to ask where it is.
3. Just in case it's an issue at your end - have you checked your junk mail? Sometimes confirmation codes find themselves within a pile of other junk and are hard to find.

The main issue in my opinion is that their support team are slow to respond to enquiries.  This leads to people being unhappy and sending them further emails, causing a backlog of enquiries that take a long time to get through.  Of course, this wouldn't be the case if Tagged actually sent the confirmation code in the first place!

My advice would be to resend the confirmation code, send Tagged an email about it, and if nothing works then you might be better off using a different social network that's bothered whether you can use it or not! Good luck!