I have a phone number, time, and everything but a name, of the person who my husband is calling and texting. How could I read those text messages? I am thinking he might be leaving me and want to be prepared.


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Rooster Cogburn Profile
Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

Why bother reading them ? They may just hurt you even more. Best to just confront him and ask about it and find out the truth. Better than looking at his messages. Get it out in the open and settle it one way or the other. Don't you think that's the best way?

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David Shabazi answered

Like Rooster stated, it's best to not even read them if you think he's legitimately prepared to leave you. If you're completely sure that he will, then just straight up leave him without any questions or anything.

Though, I wouldn't make that assumption. You may be incorrect here, maybe he won't be leaving you and maybe he's not cheating on you in the first place. Everything and anything is possible, even the chance that he won't be leaving.

My point is, don't do anything permanent until you know for sure what's going on.

Izzy SouthernGirl Profile

Well did the messages seem like he was texting a woman ? If not then I just wouldn't bother. To keep an honest relationship have a talk with him . And just say you feel like something is up and its bothering you then see where it goes from there.

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