At the end of the day you will have to rely on your own judgement whether you think you're dealing with a decent person or a psycho nutter. It is a lot easier to figure that out face-to-face than online.
There are plenty of dos and don'ts you should observe.
DON'T give our personal info on line to someone you've never seen face to face. Do not reveal details like exactly where you live, your phone number(s), where you go to school or work. Don't even give your surname.
DO meet up somewhere public and busy (in case you need to shout for help). Like a cafe or the library. DON'T agree to meet anywhere isolated. DON'T agree to go anywhere isolated with the online person until after a few meetings.
DO bring a good friend to the meeting so they can tell you what they think, too.
DO Tell other people where you are going and who you think you're meeting. If you have any reservations, then show your friends the messages/emails you've had from this other person before meeting them.
DO, If the online-friend has clearly lied to you about anything important -- like their age -- end the friendship. It's not worth it dealing with dishonest people.
There are plenty of dos and don'ts you should observe.
DON'T give our personal info on line to someone you've never seen face to face. Do not reveal details like exactly where you live, your phone number(s), where you go to school or work. Don't even give your surname.
DO meet up somewhere public and busy (in case you need to shout for help). Like a cafe or the library. DON'T agree to meet anywhere isolated. DON'T agree to go anywhere isolated with the online person until after a few meetings.
DO bring a good friend to the meeting so they can tell you what they think, too.
DO Tell other people where you are going and who you think you're meeting. If you have any reservations, then show your friends the messages/emails you've had from this other person before meeting them.
DO, If the online-friend has clearly lied to you about anything important -- like their age -- end the friendship. It's not worth it dealing with dishonest people.