How can i hack my spouse's phone?

you dont

That is illegal.

If you don't trust your spouse, you shouldn't be married to them.

This is a very difficult question, I think you already know the answer to it, and if not, wait until someone who knows it will respond 192.168.l.l

Don't do it. It is wrong in so many levels.

If you can get his phone, you can download Bitwar Data Recovery to restore his Data to the computer, including what he deleted

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